Happy 15th to Sam!

 Sam,

Today you turn 15. It's actually easy to believe because you have seemed older than 14 all year. The past year has been a good one for you. You skipped 8th grade and started 9th grade in the fall. You are still swimming year round but this spring you played flag football. I was so proud of your decision to do something new. You made all As this year and did well on your first try at the PSAT. 

You are still best friends with Mattox. I am so glad the 2 of you are so close. You don't really let many people in, but he is one person who knows you very well. This spring, you went to Rome. You seemed to really enjoy traveling and I hope that trip opens up a desire for you to travel more as you grow older.

Sam, you are a really great kid. I hope that as you grow older, you grow deeper in your walk with Jesus. I pray you find your identity and confidence in Him. I pray He is the only one you look to for validation. I pray that when you are struggling, you run to Him. I pray against pride and the idolatry of self reliance. I love you and can't wait to see what year 15 holds for you.

Love always,

Mom

Happy 10th Birthday Eli

 Eli,

It's the end of the month. I am a little late writing this. When you turned 10, we were skiing in WV. I can't believe you are 10. It's been a great year for you. Lots of growth and maturity. Ups and Downs. I have watched you grow and change before my eyes this year. 

This time last year, you were still going to Western Union Elementary School. With about 4 months left in the school year, we pulled you and put you at Weddington Christian Academy. You became really good friends with Michael Potter. At the end of the school year you did a project on Henry Ford and you dressed up like him. You got the class award for leadership. 

Last summer, we didn't do much because we were saving up for Mattox's car. We didn't go to the beach or anything. However, towards the end of the summer, you started at Tech Fall with Madi. You struggled at first to climb the rope. By the end of the summer, you had it. You took the fall off of baseball to wrestle. It was good for you. You got faster and stronger and tougher. You are a decent wrestler. You are smart and learn moves quickly. It has been fun to watch you do something new.

This winter, you wrestled for Parkwood and just started playing basketball. It will be exciting to see you play baseball this spring after having some time off. It has been almost a whole year since you have played baseball. You are a great little player and you seem to love it. 

Eli, you are a special boy. You love people well (when you are being other's focused). You are fun and cute and everyone likes you. You are curious and empathetic. I pray, more than anything, that you always say "yes" to God's plan on your life. He has given you many gifts. I am so thankful I get to be your mom and I get a front row seat to it all. I will always be here for you!

Here's to another great trip around the sun. 

Love-Mom

Happy Birthday Madi!

 

Madi is 8! It is so hard to believe that the little munchkin of a 4 year old that came to us is now 8 years old. Madi, you have grown so much. You are the smartest in your class. You are one of the strongest people I have ever met. You are brave and creative and you love Jesus. 

Over the last year, you have really taken to wrestling. When you first started, we put you in a speed tournament and you got beat 13-2 by a Russian boy. It was one of your only losses all year. Then, 2 weeks later, you came back and pinned a strong African American boy and then came over to me and said, "I think I can beat the Russian." You THEN went out and beat him in overtime! I was losing my mind. 

Another time this year we went to a tournament in Greensboro. I thought it would be a good idea then tried to talk you out of going once I realised we would have to wake up very early and be there all day. You weren't having it. You wanted to go! You wanted to see if you could win! You beat the first boy and then came over to me and said, "if I beat the next guy, do I get the medal?" I knew at that point the kid didn't stand a chance. You pinned him and won first place. The shirt in this picture was what you picked out after you won. The guy selling them tried to get you to pick a shirt that said, "don't let the ponytail fool you." Instead, you wanted the giant men wrestling on the multicolour shirt. 

Don't be fooled. You still give me a run for my money. I love you so much though, and sometimes I don't show it as well as I want to. You are special. God's hand is on you in a powerful way. I can't wait to see what God does with you. You are seriously such a special girl. I can't believe God chose me to be your mom. 

Happy 8th Birthday Madi. You are loved beyond belief. 

Sincerely, Mom.

Mattox's Missed Sweet 16

 Mattox,

You just turned 16! Year 15-16 was good, as I recall. You finished 9th grade and made good grades. You are playing all the sports at school and you have friends. You had your first girlfriend, Kaylee Likens. It didn't last long and you both seemed very hesitant. Oh well, I keep telling you there will be many girls in your path. You are kind and intelligent and very handsome.

I spent many hours stalking the DMV website so that I could get an appointment for you to get your license on your actual birthday. We drove across town and off you went to do the driving part. I did NOT think you were going to pass. The lady said that you forgot to stay in the right hand lane when you turned onto a different street. You almost didn't pass. But you did! Dad and I got you a car. An old CRV. It's perfect for you. 

This summer, you also got your first job at Showmars. You seem to really like it and have continued to work throughout the school year. 

I am so proud of the man you are becoming. It's hard to believe and accept that you are almost 18. I love you so much. I pray you can be a light in this dark and hateful world. I pray most of all you learn to yield to God's calling, each and every day.

Thanks for being such an amazing son.

Love always.

Mom

Happy Birthday Sam! (14)

 Sam,

You wouldn't believe how much you have grown this year. You are so tall and handsome. This year you have enjoyed another great year at WCA. You made straight A's and are so well loved there. You have grown a lot in swimming this year too. You still have coach Rob and he has continued to be an amazing mentor for you. At school, I think your class was pretty immature because the teachers came to me and told me they thought you fit in better with the 8th graders. So, next year, you are skipping 8th grade. I hope it is the right decision, but I pretty much let you decide if that was what you wanted. You seem very academically motivated. 

You are well liked everywhere you go. You still keep in touch with Alec from elementary school and you seem to have some good swim friends, although you never have them over to the house. You and Mattox still seem to be best friends and while it's great you love each other, sometimes I wonder if you both are content just being home, hanging out with the other. 

You are a funny teenager. You walk around with your phone giggling at memes and oblivious to stuff going on around you. You give intense hugs at all the wrong times. You are slow moving and sometimes that drives me crazy. But you are sooooo lovely. You are capable of deep conversation. You are mature and understand things at a high level. You are able to navigate social situations well. You communicate so much without saying a word. I have really learned a lot from you in this area. You are sarcastic and you like to make fun of all my sayings. Deep down, I think you love them. 

You are so hard on Eli but nicer to Madi. You are my go to person if I need dinner made. You are an anchor in our family, Sam and one of the best humans I know. I am so proud of you and I love you so much. I hope we were able to make your birthday as special as you are. Here's to many more! 

Mom

So Behind.

We just celebrated Sam's 14th Birthday and I am now seeing how far behind I am in my birthday posts. Over the last 2 years, everyone has grown so much. Eli is no longer 8..he is 9 and has switched schools. He finished the years with his brothers in private school because he wasn't thriving in his current Spanish school. That was a hard decision, but it was the right one. Once he switched schools, I saw him confidence grow and he became very engaged in learning. He walked into that school and immediately showed off his leadership skills, earning the leadership award for his class. Over the last year, Eli has also found a huge group of friends in the neighborhood he plays with. Dylan, Cole, Lucas, Collin and Jersey (Dylan's sister). There have been 2 recent additions as well...Brooks and Emery. When Eli isn't on the ball field, playing tons of baseball, he is outside playing with his friends. The last 2 years have been difficult on Eli because of our adoption of Madi. I am proud of the growth I have seen in him and look forward to seeing him grow into a man of good character.

Madi is now 7. She is rocking it out in school. She is a leader in her class and everyone loves her. This year, she played basketball and gymnastics. She quit gymnastics in time to start wrestling season, and really enjoyed wrestling. Now, she goes to a club practice 2xs a week and is doing great and improving so much. This winter we found out that Madi had sleep apnea, so she got her tonsils and adenoids out. That surgery was tough but now, she sleeps well with the help of some sleep meds. At school,  her best friends are Laney and Ella but she really gets along well with her classmates. The neighborhood hasn't been as nice to Madi as it has Eli. The girls next door and across the street have turned out to be mean girls and luckily, God has protected Madi from them. She has some other neighbours she plays with often. Jonah, Micah, and Andrew are her daily playmates and we have her many friends from school over often. 

As a family, we went to Florida this past Thanksgiving and that was fun. We didn't go skiing and we aren't going to the beach because we purchased Mattox a car. Things are changing quickly in this house as everyone grows up. It's not shocking that I haven't found time to get on here and write....

Happy 8th Birthday Eli!

 

Eli, 

It's the end of January and I am just now posting your birthday letter. I literally can't believe you are 8. You are the youngest of my biological babies and it's hard for me to watch you grow, knowing you won't stay little forever. For now, you still have the softest skin. You are so sweet. You love to snuggle me and you give me little machine gun kisses on my face. You still always prefer your dad. You and him have always had a great connection. You share common interest when it comes to the Braves, UNC basketball, and collecting baseball cards. I hope y'all continue to be close the rest of your life. It is a very sweet thing y'all have.

This year, you officially became a big brother. The adjustment wasn't easy for you. Madi is a big personality and is insecure. She always tries to push your buttons and tries to make herself feel better than you at things. You struggled at first, but you have absolutely become a loving and amazing big brother. You have exceeded my expectations. I am proud that you have handled this with such love and grace. So proud!

This year you started 2nd grade. Your best friend is Brody. You have also had a friend move into the neighborhood. His name is Dylan. You go to his house almost every day. 

Your brothers think you are spoiled and get away with too much. They are right! You are spoiled rotten, but you are seriously so cute and sweet, AND funny. Ugh, what will we do with you. You are such a little man. You are still emotional and sensitive but you walk around like you are so cool and with such a huge ego. That will be something you probably have to keep in check.

Eli, I love you so much. You are my last little boy. I wish I could keep you little, but I also can't wait to see what journey you go on. This year, you have given me many challenges, but also much joy. I love you and would do anything for you. Oh yeah...did I mention you are becoming a pretty good little ball player. Dad and I coach your team and that has been so fun for us to do together. I hope this year is a great one! Love you lots,

Mom